Our lives together have been one heck of a roller-coaster ride ever since we got married in February’1989. The turning point and the most remarkable moment of my life was when my daughter, Kajri was born on March 20th, 1992. However, this post is not about my daughter, except to say that my love for her has always been and will always remain unconditional and complete.
Ours was a love marriage, that perhaps all my readers will know by now, at least those who matter the most. This post ought also to be read by all those people who cannot believe that in this day and age, there is a man who still swears by his wife and who has the fullest confidence in stating that there is nothing that is hidden between me and my wife.
I stand by my committment to her like the Rock of Gibralter – so help me God – and I can swear upon any holy book that never in all these years have I been unfaithful to her. Yes, you hear me right, no girlfriends other than my wife, why to this day, she is and always will be my first and last girlfriend / wife / partner – whatever you would like to call it. Yes, I am human and do have my own failings, but this choice is my very own personal choice. I am very old-school in the department of romance and still cannot allow any thought of any other woman to enter my mind.
Honestly, it is not as if I have never liked anyone, but then, on the other hand, I am friends with so many awesome and stupendous women that you just cannot believe what I am saying, till you actually see me talk to them. In the latter category, if you count my cousins, my sister, my sister-in-law’s and last but not the least, my mother – they all have been excellent companions to me all through my life.
Coming back to the topic, four days from this day [i.e. 18th Feb, 2017] we will be celebrating 28 years of togetherness and there is not a twinge of any regret or any other negative emotion over it.
I am proud to admit that my wife is the ‘man’ of the house in many ways, especially that she earns way much more than what I do. This is more because despite my multiple talents, misfortune and bad luck have continuously dogged me to the extent that I cannot explain in words. Since this post is not about my misfortune, I shall leave that topic now.
Ever since my wife joined the Gujarat University as a Reader in April’1995, she has not looked back. Today she is the Head of the Department of Psychology in the School of Psychology, Philosophy and Education, more because she richly deserves to he holding that post.
You must have heard the saying “Behind every successful man, there is a woman.” – today you might even say “Behind every successful woman, there is a man”, because though predominantly the former may be true, but not always. Let us just leave this topic by saying that there are a number of worthy exception(s) to that rule, and I am fiercely proud to fall in the latter category.
Whatever may have been our past differences, they have either faded into oblivion, or have become so minor, almost as if they are not worthy of even a mention today. As of this moment and every moment that will occur in the coming years of the life that remains on this Earth, I have decided that she will never be alone, for I am going to be there for her, as a companion, friend and confidante, till death do us part.
GOOD EVENING, FRIENDS!!
CA Vikram Shankar Mathur
18-Feb-2017 | 15:35 Hours IST